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Creating Conscious Relationships
I believe that the time has come for us to create conscious relationships that are deep, loving, meaningful and mutually uplifting. In the past many of us, myself included, created relationships by default. As children we look at the relationships around us and unconsciously create a blueprint for what relationships look like; how men and […]
Ready to Accept that Yo-Yo Diets Don’t Work?
The word “diet” conjures up images of deprivation, starvation, moodiness and all round forcing yourself to do what you really don’t want to do. Due to the feeling of deprivation, most of us fall off the bandwagon rather quickly or if we make it to the required 30 days or more excruciating 90 days; we […]
So Why Should Someone Date You?
We’re all very clear about what we expect from another person, but why should someone date YOU? As a matchmaker, I frequently get people with a long list of “requirements”. He must be tall, financially independent, have good manners, be well spoken, be good looking, have a sense of humour, be loyal and trustworthy, share […]
Does the Modern Woman Need a Man?
Traditionally, men were the breadwinners and women stayed home to take care of the home and children. Gender roles were clear and as long as each partner fulfilled their role, there was harmony in the relationship. So does the modern woman still need a man? Women today are more educated than ever before, but are […]
Are you Communicating but not Connecting?
Today, more than ever, with our smart phones, communicating with a large number of people; is ridiculously easy. But are we actually connecting with people on a deep level? As human beings, we all need connection, not just in the business world or personal relationships, but on a much deeper soul level. Now I must […]
Single on Valentine’s Day?
It’s February – the month of LOVE. Are you seeing happy couples everywhere and feeling blue about being single on Valentine’s Day? What’s your signature style around this time? Do you hide out and pray fervently that the perfect person for you will show up at your doorstep? Or do you throw yourself into work […]
Debunking the Soulmate Myth
The idea that there is one perfect person for each one of us, is too alluring not to consider. We wonder who they are; when we will meet them; we wonder if the one we’re with is our soulmate. We expect them to be perfect; to read our thoughts and complete our sentences. The fact […]
Do You Fall for Potential Rather than Reality?
Are you constantly attracted to “fixer-uppers”? Perhaps he’s in the process of a really bad break-up and tells you all the stories of how badly he was treated. Or maybe he’s just lost his job and he tells you how unfair his employer was. Or maybe it was a huge business deal gone wrong and […]
12 Questions to make a First Date Fun
First dates can be quite nerve-wracking and you could run out of things to say which lead to that moment of awkward silence. Fact questions like “Where are you from?”, “What do you do?” “How many siblings do you have?” are the most common questions people ask, but can be quite boring and feel more […]
Been Ghosted? Who Do You Call?
You met a great person. You’ve dated a few times and you’ve been texting regularly. You seem to be into each other and suddenly, for no apparent reason, he/she disappears. Total silence. You’ve been ghosted! It seems to be part of the landscape of modern dating. It’s frustrating and downright rude. Most people need to […]
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